1 Corinthians 13:1-7 If I speak with human eloquence and angelic ecstasy but don’t love, I’m nothing but the creaking of a rusty gate. If I speak God’s Word with power, revealing all his mysteries and making everything plain as day, and if I have faith that says to a mountain, “Jump,” and it jumps, but I don’t love, I’m nothing. If I give everything I own to the poor and even go to the stake to be burned as a martyr, but I don’t love, I’ve gotten nowhere. So, no matter what I say, what I believe, and what I do, I’m bankrupt without love. Love never gives up. Love cares more for others than for self. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. Love doesn’t strut, Doesn’t have a swelled head, Doesn’t force itself on others, Isn’t always “me first,” Doesn’t fly off the handle, Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, Doesn’t revel when others grovel, Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, Puts up with anything, Trusts God always, Always looks for the best, Never looks back, But keeps going to the end.
So, you want to be a Christian? Do you really, truly want to know what it means to live the God kind of life? Getting saved is the easy part because accepting CHrist as your personal Lord and Savior is all about what God does for you. Everything after that is up to you. Paul says it this way:
Philippians 2:12 So then, my dear ones, just as you have always obeyed my instructions with enthusiasm, not only in my presence, but now much more in my absence, continue to work out your salvation that is, cultivate it, bring it to full effect, actively pursue spiritual maturity with awe-inspired fear and trembling using serious caution and critical self-evaluation to avoid anything that might offend God or discredit the name of Christ.
We have To work at being saved! God gave us the package. It’s up to us to open it up and use what’s inside. So, what’s in the package and how do we use it? I’m glad you asked that question. While each package is uniquely different for each individual based on the gifts and callings of God that He has placed in you, there is one item that God has placed in each and everyone of us – LOVE.
You see, without it we are nothing! Everything else in our package is useless. Have you ever heard the sound of a creeky old gate? It’s irritating and frustrating. It may be working great. You can use that old gate to get in and out of your yard. But, each time you open it, it has a tendency to be an aggravating noise. If you attempt to use all the gifts that God has placed in your package without using the greatest gift of love, then you sound like that old creeky gate. The gifts may be useful, but less affective because you creek like that gate each time you use them.
Okay, nobody wants that! So, what do we do with the love that’s in our package. 1 Corinthians 13 above gives us a list of the qualities that tell us how to live the God kind of love.
1. Love never gives up
well, that’s pretty simple. Don’t be a quitter! No matter how tough things get, hang in there. God’s got you covered.
2. Love cares more for others than than for self
This one is easy enough if you really care a great deal about someone. It’s much tougher if the person is an irritating family member, a grouchy boss, or a whiny church member who thinks they know it all. So, how do we do this? Asking God how to handle each situation is the first step. Pray for their salvation and let the love of God shine through. The second step is to quit being selfish and live a selfless life instead. Learn how to respect those around you. Their life is as valuable as yours. Stop complaining about those around you. Show up on time for church, work, family meetings, and other events. Being late shows you care more about yourself than others.
3. Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have
This one is a “no brainer”. Be content with what you have. God knows what you need.
4. Love doesn’t strut
Don’t be arrogant. Let’s face it. None of us are as important as we think we are. Each person is valuable and plays a unique part in life and has a special purpose to fulfill.
5. Doesn’t have a swelled head
Everybody knows somebody like this. But, nobody knows everything. Be attentive to what others around you have to say. You might just learn something you didn’t know before.
6. Doesn’t force itself on others
It’s best not to be pushy. Don’t force your opinions on someone else. While giving advice is a good thing, what is done with the information is not up to you. It’s between the other person and God.
7. Isn’t always about “me first”
To be truthful, it’s not “all about me”, it’s all about God. When we put Him first place in our lives, everything else comes together.
8. Doesn’t fly off the handle
Anger can get us in more trouble than we want or need in our lives. It may take practice, but the calmer a situation is handled, the more peaceful our lives will be. It want be easy at first, but it can be done.
9. Doesn’t keep score of the sins of others
While we may not realize that we do this, our memory has a tendency to remember the wrong and hurtful things in our lives. Walking in forgiveness will let the love of God shine through. It covers a multitude of sins. Holding grudges only hurts yourself, not others
10. Doesn’t revel when others grovel
Everyone has a bad day every now and again. Ignoring a person that is hurting inside while you’re busy going about your happy everyday life doesn’t really help the one who is struggling. Take the time to encourage the hurting. Maybe the happiness in you will help that one see who they are in Christ. Joy is contagious!
11. Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth
The truth will set you free! Complaining about a revealed flaw in our lives will only stop the flow of love in our lives. Look at it this way, the truth revealed in your heart is God’s way of getting the garbage out of your life.
12. Puts up with anything
Stuff happens! Each day on this earth is an adventure. We’ll have good days and bad days.
13. Trusts God always
We may not know or understand what God is doing in our lives. What we do know is that it is all for His purpose to advance the Kingdom of God.
14. Always looks for the best
Stay positive, even when things look bad. Storms come and go. It’s always darkest before the dawn. God has good things in store for us. God’s love pays no attention to all those negative thoughts that come your way.
15. Never looks back
The past is already gone and can never be altered. Put it all behind you. We have a race to race to run and things to accomplish for God’s glory.
16. But keeps going to the end
Keep moving forward. It’s never too late. No matter what you’ve done or how old you are, God has a purpose for your life.
So, you want to be a Christian? It’s a tough job, but God has enabled us to do it. When I began meditating on 1 Corinthians 13, I saw where I need to do a whole lot of work in the area of love. I hope this encourages you to join in this journey with me to be more full of the the love of God like never before. This is the key to having a fulfilled Godly lifestyle, so our light can shine bright for the world to see. You never know, they might just want what you have!